Had a satisfying date on Saturday and and my date stated it will be good to generally meet once again. No firm plans made at that time and thus far, a day later, no contact from him. Should I just take this as he is not keen to pursue things? Reluctant to ‘chase’ after him but used to do really like him!
He can contact you on Tuesday.
How can you understand?!
Yes, Tuesday could possibly be most likely.
Sunday is simply too quickly (he will not wish to be too eager), Monday is very first time of working week (many people are coping with weekend/back to function blues), so Tuesday is probably about right.
Just How are you currently in touch before, and exactly how often?
When it comes to previous two months by e-mail. One message per day with all the odd time with out a message
I would expect message by the next day and would give consideration to moving forward if there isn’t one by having an explanation that is good.
Does he constantly initiate contact?
This has been a mix between that has initiated the contact. I delivered a text evening to say thank you and he replied straight back saying he’d enjoyed the date yesterday.
He will text you throughout the if not on Tuesday week. Have patience
Just experience from aeons ago! He would ring on Tuesday if you swapped numbers with a bloke on Saturday.
Your position is just a bit various though.
Many thanks for the words that are reassuring by this miracle Tuesday wait! New to all of this on line dating stuff. Little bit of a psychological minefield.
It once was called the 3 rule back in the time day. First day is just too quickly, 2nd time could be too apparent, third time keeps you guessing.
But that is after very very first contact, maybe perhaps not date that is first you had been currently frequently in touch.
Real but possibly he is baffled: )
Message withdrawn at poster’s demand.
Then i think you just do have to leave it to him to follow up at some point this week if you were already in regular contact and it’s your ‘turn’ to text, but you want him to be the one to pursue asking specifically about when the next date will be.
If you don’t simply text and get him. On Tuesday.
Bollocks for this delay that is 3-day. Him again ask him if you want to see!
‘Hi x, enjoyed our date, have you been free on x-day or x-day to generally meet once again? ‘
Up-date: got a text early this am to express hey and exactly how had been my sunday etc. Replied but added hoped to generally meet once more as soon as we have the chance. Fingertips crossed!
He had been most likely wondering why you had not held it’s place in touch, since he had been the very last to make contact with.
Therefore, formally it really is his check out now make contact but i might like to deliver him an email. Argh. Can not stay all of this my change, your change ritual!
You can easily nevertheless content, IMO. Just be sure it generally does not turn out to be a single sided discussion.
Forget any rules that are silly exactly how many times and whom should ask whom.
If another date is wanted by you, ask him.
He will either say yes, or no.
There is great deal of game players in OD. Do not get drawn involved with it, or think you must play them.
We met OH on line. We chatted on phone on Saturday, came across for coffee on Sunday, and 2 hours directly after we went our personal methods he phoned me asking me personally off to view a musical organization in the Tuesday evening. Did I think ‘oh no, he is too keen, he did not wait 3 times, oh exactly what a pity’. No, I was thinking ‘great, he likes me personally too’.
I have therefore giddy over dating on MN
We really have to get a full life xcheaters do not We?
Thank you for upgrading – I would state wait a few days then give him a nudge if he does not get in contact and in case you’re interested in seeing him once again. It generally does not hurt in the event that you recommend doing one thing together. All the best
It is Secure Wednesday the next day. SW could be the time in making the date that is next.
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